Part 2

A wake up call was on r/sex when a guy posted about how his girlfriend said she'd had a 3some before and he felt jealous/left out - all the women on there just kept saying "Just go have one"

Because they're so out of touch they think, because it's so easy for them to have sex anytime/any way they want, that telling a man to "just go have a 3some" is an actually serious remark/suggestion.

I don't think that women fundamentally understand what it's like to be "single" - they don't even fundamentally undersatnd the concept of what it means. Because, for men, when they're single - it means they go about their lives and they're not really talking to any women, then maybe they'll start actively dating and find a partner. But there are windows with 0 bitches, and if you're low social value those could be very long windows. Women do not have windows without men, PERIOD, ever. For a woman, being single means you have an array of men fighting for you/giving you attention and you just aren't particularly interested in any of it.

No woman ever experiences true "single" ness. As a man, when you take a woman, you are explicitly taking her away from other men. As a woman, obviously chads have plenty of women orbiting them but they're the rare elites, normally when you take a guy as your boyfriend you're not taking him from other women fighting for him. As a man, that's practically always the case.

And especially on Reddit where almost everyone lives in such obnoxious echo chambers the misunderstanding is 10 fold. On reddit most people don't even want to understand, it's more of a platform for them to wage war on behalf of their ideology.

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[–]Aquamjaurine1 point1 month ago

Ironic ending tgere, when you yourself start with saying women won't get it, when in our world, that's you who don't. Walking our shoes you would equally have known, depending on whos life I guess. There are many diffrent ones.

I'm a woman who has no man talk to me at all in my life. And men like you saying we have made me think someone would come, and now it's been two years not a soul. And men like you has made me feel like I'm not normal and not women enough for not having men If every woman do. No flirt, no friend recuest, only snap scam talking name is xxzxhxhxhx?? that can also be shady sellers. There is in your words, zero bitches to date or have anything with and there won't be eighter. Maybe not for years, possibly never.

When I said that erlier there where a few men popping up in my dm's here on reddit. But they don't see me, thats not romamance. That's desperation, impersonal and they would NEVER have dm'd me naturally. Only one did before that asking if i have red hair 😅

And that has also made me realise when women or men say it's hard to want to talk to people online in wanting to have a dating situation with you when you have no idea who they even are. They where right. It gives nothing. It could might as well have been a bot.

I don't know how you would feel If you because of this, got some women in your dm's and sorry If that is your dream and I don't aprecuate it exept for one who was in a relationship and for other reasons than to get to know me. It used to be mine, to feel like a woman. But now I know It's like looking at a screen. Like this concersation. Words.

But just stop it. Listen. You have it wrong. For some it's right, but not at all for women as a whole.

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[–]AdTurbulent81081 point3 weeks, 4 days ago

But it's probably out of choice if I asked to speak to you now would you accept and I knew your assets or look how much would really change

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