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[–]pie-mart-8 points1 month ago

Yes. I understand that. But it is presented to us women by the media as a lack of men having romantic relationships and it being the fault of women.

When women KNOW it is cuz men lack platonic relationships with each other. And it becomes ostracizing to us women when we are looked at as the problem and as the solution

Its like when boomers blamed millennials for ruining random businesses. When it was the businesses fault for not supplying stuff the new generations wanted to buy.

Men right now face an issue where they lack platonic relationships with EACH OTHER

But we women are often told to take accountability for this issue because we too can cause issues and or harm in the terms of dating. And or because we are actively choosing being single and living with our female friemds or family over getting married to men.

Maybe since you are a man, you don't understand how it is presented to us women by A) the media and by B) men

We are told we are the cause of the epidemic. And thus responsibile for fixing it.

But the male loneliness epidemic has NOTHING to do with the gender war at all. And 10000% to do with the fact men lack platonic relationships with each other.

No amount of accountability of women sucking at dating or being gold diggers is going to fix the lack of platonic relationships men lack with each other

If every woman got together and said "yes. We can also be shit partners and cheat and lie and manipulate" men would still be more lonely than women.

Because the solution is out of our hands. Men need men who understand men problems

Just like women need women who understand women problems. Unfortunately for men, we women have more women who seek women and understand and extend this understanding to each other and we form communities based on this.

Sometimes, not always. When men make men only communities it is still focused on women and the woes men face in getting women to like them. It isn't about seeking male friendship but rather to again, point the fingers at women (red pill stuff)

It is frustrating to see men struggle to connect with each other then make a meme about women not taking accountability for the male loneliness epidemic

When you, a man, yourself is saying we would understand it more if we understood its more about platonic relationships

WHICH WE KNOW. Which is why we get so frustrated at being blamed and asked to fix it and take accountability for something we are not at fault for.

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[–]pie-mart-4 points1 month ago

Ok? But the loneliness epidemic is cuz men lack platonic relationships?

Or is it cuz of romantic loneliness? Because if its about romantic then women are also romantically lonely and therefore cannot be called the "male" loneliness epidemic

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[–]itchypalp_882 points1 month ago

You’re FUNDAMENTALLY wrong though. How do you explain how lonely Warhammer nerds are then?

They have LARGE male support groups and close friendships that extend outside the hobby. We just went to a funeral because one of my incel friends from the game club killed himself.

You don’t understand. It’s because they’re ROMANTICALLY lonely. They have friends…

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