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It's their fucking house & they're behind a closed office door. Why do you have a problem with them doing ANYTHING intimate behind a closed door in their own home?!
I believe YOU are the odd 1. And a judgy asshole.
YTA
YTA. You barged into a closed room and saw two married people making out and made it a big deal. You are the weirdo. You don't kiss your husband?
YTA - what’s wrong with your sister showing affection to her husband literally in a private area that you walked in on?
do you hate your husband or something that making out with him is a gross concept? i’m glad your sister is in a loving marriage where they’re actively attracted to each other. Also, YOU walked in on THEM and they were in a private room. the only weird one here is you. YTA.
Married people who enjoy foreplay are weird and gross? I’m so sorry about your sex life.
YTA: Your Sister is showing affection to her husband. But you called her gross & weirdo for kissing her husband ? Do Better OP, Your Sister can do as she pleases. You don’t need to make it a bigger deal than it needs to be.
“Don’t need to be doing all of that” What? Showing affection when they didn’t think anyone was around? You’re the weird, judgy one.
YTA. You really think two married people who are physically attracted to each other are "gross." You have a very strange moral framework.
YTA you were in their house. YTA for saying anything about her and her husband acting like loving partners in their own home. YTA because this sounds like a great relationship that is loving and healthy. Maybe you should take what you saw as advice and use it in your own marriage and I bet your husband would be giddy.
Wtf YTA I still make out with my husband and we are together for 30 years. Why is that weird? I feel sorry for you apparently you and husband don’t make out.
YTA and weirdo. My and I are in our late 50's, early 60's and still make out sometimes.
So it’s super weird for married people to make out?
YTA and I feel sorry for your husband. Making out is so fun. I couldn’t imagine not wanting to make out with my partner even if it wasn’t part of foreplay.
Oof, I feel bad for your husband if you think making out behind closed doors in your own house is "gross" and "weird".
YTA
YTA. You fail to knock on a closed door you don’t get to judge what you see. Try growing up a bit.
OP I feel bad for your husband. I suggest you show him some affection or someone else will. YTA. Go see a therapist.
Sorry, you are the AH! Just because you don’t show your husband affection doesn’t mean she is a weirdo for doing so. They were in a separate room with the door shut, they weren’t in the kitchen putting on a display for the whole family!You should have knocked if the door was closed. She invited you and your family to stay with them. Don’t add insult to injury, apologize sincerely and then have a Merry Christmas!
YTA may a love as wonderful as theirs never find your bitter ass.
YTA. And the freaking weirdo. "Hey when youre done wr should go." And then talk to her about how cute it was to walk in on that.
YTA, grow up you're acting like a seven year old.
YTA for calling your sister names in her own house for things done in private.
Oh, look at the Ice queen.
YTA. What are you? 12? Kissing gross but you have a kids? Grow the fuck up weirdo
Since when do you open a door without knocking? Be grateful she has a a marriage where there like they like to make out. You are the weirdo . YTA too.
It’s their home. They were behind a closed door. You didn’t knock. What they were doing is none of your business. You are in the wrong on all counts. YTA
YTA. It also sounds like you live a lonely life.
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I (36F) have been staying with my sisters (39F) family as we both have young kids and we usually spend Christmas together.
So, yesterday I was looking for my sister as we were supposed to go the mall, and I’m walking around the house looking for he because we agreed on a certain time to head out, and when I open the door to her office, I see her and her husband just making out in there. They pretty much noticed me immediately and I apolgoized and left, but in my minx I was thinking that just doing that in general is super weird. Like we’re not teenagers anymroe and they don’t need to be doing all of that.
Eventuslly we left, and my sister apologized for what i walked in on, and said she got a little “distracted.” I said ”gross” and called her a weirdo, and my sister got kind of miffed over that and said that I was being over dramatic and that I “do it too with my husband” (not really but ok). This led to a back and forth for a bit and the mall was a bit less fun that anticipated
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Tbh I don’t know a lot of ppl who make out except the honeymoon phase of dating. So fair. But also they’re happy and not hurting anyone?
38 years and still making out with my husband! 🙋🏻♀️
Yeah but a majority don’t, so I think ppl find it weird. But there’s nothing wrong w people that do! In fact it’s a probably a good thing ?
Maybe your sister should lock the door first.
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