since 8 months, 3 weeks ago
3 of 3
Tip Reveddit Real-Time can notify you when your content is removed.
your account history
Tip Check if your account has any removed comments.
view my removed comments you are viewing a single comment's thread.
view all comments


Totally. And honestly, it doesn’t matter how old they are when you meet them bc often times they live literally half the time at their mom’s house, so you’re pretty stuck with whatever ideology she instills into the kid/s. Unless she is out of the picture completely, as a stepmom you’ll never steer the ship. Learning how to live as a passenger is extraordinarily difficult, but you don’t have to give up your boundaries.
Wow I love what you said about learning to live as a passenger. I’m such a control freak and I’ve really been trying hard to let go this year and realize just this. I will never steer the ship and that is okay.
🤍