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Except it seems for him it's not a release, it makes him uncomfortable. If you're sending sexual texts they should be for the other person, not just for you to get your rocks off using them as a vessel.
It sounds like you are both sexually frustrated, which is normal when you're teenagers with hormones coursing through your veins. This type of teasing is just making things more difficult and makes the entire "waiting" thing seem arbitrary. If you're telling him in graphic detail what you want him to do to you sexually, what's the point of waiting? If God has an issue with premarital sex, do you really think He approves of you telling your unmarried partner to dip his balls in you?
I think you need to take some time to consider why you are abstaining and if it's really serving you in a positive way.
True , but God knows me at least it's going to my bf and not another person.He does the same thing to me but I don't complain so that's why I was confused.Especially when he touches me etc..
So why can the same not be said for sex? Either marriage is the line or it isn't, so if it is then it doesn't matter that this boy is your boyfriend because you two aren't married.
It could be the actual texts themselves which are kind of cringy and trying too hard. Usually sexting is a little more...well, sexy. These sound like cheesy sexual pickup lines.
So again, if y'all are touching sexually, why the arbitrary line drawn?
Well, we don't touch each other's genitals... I know how to sext properly but if I were to do that or talk dirty how he does he says I'm nasty so.. and really I'm not trying hard again I just came up with them from the top of my head
Why are you dating someone who calls you nasty?